I've learned the secret about meeting other people. It's simply never worth it. The butterfly is not your friend. Stay in your cocoon!
Like in the Tao Te Ching 80: Neighbor lands are juxtaposed. Each hears the barking dogs. Folks grow old and die and never once exchange a call.
It's why I like to hang out at my blog at Blogger. There's no lonelier place on the internet than Blogger. You never see a single soul.
But I'm also something of an evangelist for everyone going to their respective corners and staring blankly at the wall. Or possibly reading.
So remember, don't write, don't call, don't drop by, don't leave your home, and you'll be happy. Maybe get a dog. Dogs are OK.